Saturday, January 23, 2010
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Back With A Talk
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Hey...Something yesterday triggered a little something in me...
I want to talk about girls,boys and relationships...In general..
Nothing to do with anyone dead or alive..No no...Haha..
Case Number One : It's like this..A girl likes a boy..Lied
to a boy,pretended to be someone else to get to know
boy..One day,girl decided that the pretending have to
stop.. So girl admit to boy who she really is..Boy got
pissed..Throw harsh comments at girl..Few weeks past..
Girl still can't get over boy..'Cuz girl told me she love
boy..And then girl read something on boy's blog post,
about him missing someone he can call his own..How
much he missed the touch of love,being in love and
being loved.. Boy wrote that he felt empty..Girl has as
if given up..But yet,she doesn't want to..
Now...Now..That's not as bad as in Case Number Two : Girl
knows boy for almost a year or so...Boy treated her as
if she has a chance..Then girl found out that boy was
with someone else for a few months while was so called
"giving girl a chance".. Boy didn't tell girl the truth..
Instead acted as if nothing ever happened..Girl read
on that someone else's blog about the happenings..Her
heart got broken.. She was mad,furious and at the
same time,she felt used..Stupid.. Unappreciated..She felt
like an IDIOT..For pouring her love on boy and get
this in return...Oh..I almost forgot..Boy was aware of
girl's feelings towards him throughout the whole
process..Still,he acted as if NOTHING happened..And,
oh,did I mentioned that THEY weren't even in a
relationship with each other?Girl was left hanging and
waiting..Buhh.. -_-"
So here's the question..Who Suffers more?Who has the greatest
sufferings?Girl in Case One or girl in Case Two?Anyway..Aside
with who suffers more than who..The bottom line is...Both
girls have to let go..Whether they want it or not..It's not
healthy to keep holding on to someone who doesn't reciprocate
your feelings..To both girls..If you're reading this..Here's what
I can say to you..
To love does not means to have..And having does not mean
loving..It is hard to let go..To see the person you love is in
the passionate arms of another girl. To see that the girl in
HIS passionate arms is not you..It's heartbreaking.. But
we're mere humans...Never escapes from making mistakes
and taking wrong steps..Instead of mourning over it..Make
the best out of it..Learn through it..Learn not to hate him in
order to be able to let go much easier.. Learn to open your
heart to others even though you don't want to throw the love
for him just yet,you still want to hang on to it.I say go ahead..
Just DO NOT restrict yourself from getting to know others
around you..Who might be the one for you..God sent..
Remember,you too deserve a shot at happiness..You deserve
to smile..Be happy and loved..Doesn't matter if you're tall,
short,fat,skinny,beautiful or ugly..Anybody can be in love..
Everyone can be in love..Because love is true ( Cinta itu hakiki ) ..
Occupy yourself with positive activities..Go retail therapy
with your girlfriends (those who're very positive)..You feel a
little positive when you hang out with positive people..It's
their positive aura that got to you...Get to know yourself better
with a little help from your hobby..If you like to photograph,
then,snap away!Small things like this can help in the long run..
If that doesn't help much..
My suggestion,why don't you write down on a piece of paper
what's on your mind..Every little thing..That is bothering you
and giving you sleepless nights..What you'll miss about
"him"...What he's done to you..And what you hope to fulfill
about the matter..Like example,you wish to forget him or so..
Then,when you are really ready...Burn that piece of paper..Cry
if you must while burning it..Reckon that you are letting "him"
go..Letting memories of "him" go..All's left are ashes..Blow
it away..And it'll fly..Hopefully it goes the same for the
memories within you..
Be careful while burning,I don't want to be blame for any
house being on fire..Haha..Best wishes..Lots of love..I'll see
you when I see you...
3:55 PM Z
♥Lady of Love♥
♥ Nurul Irah Aman♥
♥ I'm Your Funny Girl♥
♥ I Am My Own Style
♥ Extrovert
♥ Vain
♥ Fun-Loving
♥ Spontaneous
♥ Chocolate Is My Indulgence
♥ Coffee Is My Addiction
♥ Music Heals My Soul
♥ Beauty/Looking Good Is My Fetish
♥ Competitive
♥ Stubborn Yet Able To Compromise
♥ Dominant
♥ Beautifully Gorgeous Inside Out
♥ Sugary Sweet If You're Nice,Vice-Versa
♥ Cunningly Smart
♥ I Talk The Talk & Walk The Walk!
♥ Lastly:I Don't Give A Damn About YOUR Judgments Towards Me!Kapeesh?!
♥♥ I believe in believing in yourself.If you think you can do it,then you CAN do it.♥♥
♥♥ If you want something,pursue it with your whole heart,mind and soul.♥♥
♥♥ If you are afraid of failing.YOU have already FAILED!Don't be afraid of failing.Because you can only be better after you failed.♥♥
