Wednesday, September 29, 2010
.|.Put You Act Together Sister!.|.
You! Hey! Yeah you! God..Girls...Girls...Girls....We can be the ones
ruling the world,we can also be the one who are just stupid at times..
Yes..We can be SO stupid that I really don't know what to say
when I encounter one stupid incident..Here's the thing..I don't
know if you're reading my blog,but if you do..I'm sorry babe..But I
need to knock some sense..
This friend of mine..Met someone over the weekend..Kinda fell for
him..They exchange numbers and all...She was on cloud nine
thinking that he too likes her (I know at this point I'm starting to sound bitchy)
and when she soon found out that he only regards her as a lil' sister
and that he recently got back with his ex,she was heartbroken..Like
unbelievably heartbroken..Ya'll know the kind of heartbroken
whereby long relationships are involved?Like those 6 years or so..
Yeah..Those kind...I mean,c'mon..You can go ahead and like some-
one you've just met..But any girls know that its only the attraction
of the hormones..Especially those first few meetings..Nothing can be
based upon feelings just yet...It's attraction based on lust..A nicer
word would be desire..
We've all been there I'm pretty sure of it..I've been there myself..And
I pretty well know that we make these kinds of mistakes way back in
our secondary days..Back when we're younger,naive,vain as ever and
stupid... -_-" Yes..Those were the glorified horrified days..I have
done that mistake of falling for someone whom I just met..And was
utterly entertaining my own feelings..Which of course,flown me over
the moon before crash landing me on the road called heartbreak
avenue..
Surely we all learn something from there,don't we?NEVER put high
hopes,correction,DON'T even hope for anything with someone you
just met..What more,yet to know..Lets talk serious shit here..You've
been in more relationship than I have,you should know better than
me..Don't tell me you've learnt nothing from your past relationships?
We're big enough to know what's good and what's bad,what's right
and what's wrong and we definitely are big enough to differentiate
between "falling in loving" and "attracted" to someone..And don't
tell me it's cause maybe you're lonely...Don't gimme that crap..Yes,
we all need coaxing and pampering from that someone we call
special..We need to be loved and cared for..From the other half..
Keep it real,girl..Don't fall to be someone who's desperate for love
and attention..Wake up..If you're lonely..Have you ever thought of
those who are left ALONE by their loved one..Those who have nobody
else to depend on..Those who are abandon and unwanted by the
whole world (their circle of world that is)?Now they're lonely.. If you're
lonely..Think again..You have people around you who care,those
who would accompany you in laughter and tears alike..The right
person will come when the time is right..Okay..Maybe he came in
when you're feeling like crap..So what?! That does not gives you the
liberty to waste yourself,girl..
Girl,you're not gonna be a girl for any longer..You're gonna grow to
being a woman...Make sure you bring your mentality to growth as
well...I know you're smart..Don't let me think otherwise..
If you're single and you wanna use that as a reason to waste yourself..
Give one wake up slap for yourself...I'm single too,but that doesn't
give me the reasons to let myself get hurt..Being single gives you the
chance to explore the possible possibilities out there..Just like food...
You don't just go to one place and get yourself the same cuisines over
and over again,right? You taste cuisines from all over the island..Only
when you have tasted enough that you will go back to the ones that
captured your tastes buds..Don't get me wrong..I'm not asking you to go
around with boys and go breaking their hearts..I'm just telling you to
embrace being single..Embrace who you're able to meet and get to
know..You'll never be able to know as much people as you can when
you're tied..You know what I mean..There's always restrictions....
Go ahead and enjoy life...Keep a positive attitude..Do what you loved
doing most and see what being single and "lonely" brings to your
doorstep...You'll never guess what the future holds for you..
XoXo I'll see you when I see you8:33 PM Z
♥Lady of Love♥
♥ Nurul Irah Aman♥
♥ I'm Your Funny Girl♥
♥ I Am My Own Style
♥ Extrovert
♥ Vain
♥ Fun-Loving
♥ Spontaneous
♥ Chocolate Is My Indulgence
♥ Coffee Is My Addiction
♥ Music Heals My Soul
♥ Beauty/Looking Good Is My Fetish
♥ Competitive
♥ Stubborn Yet Able To Compromise
♥ Dominant
♥ Beautifully Gorgeous Inside Out
♥ Sugary Sweet If You're Nice,Vice-Versa
♥ Cunningly Smart
♥ I Talk The Talk & Walk The Walk!
♥ Lastly:I Don't Give A Damn About YOUR Judgments Towards Me!Kapeesh?!
♥♥ I believe in believing in yourself.If you think you can do it,then you CAN do it.♥♥
♥♥ If you want something,pursue it with your whole heart,mind and soul.♥♥
♥♥ If you are afraid of failing.YOU have already FAILED!Don't be afraid of failing.Because you can only be better after you failed.♥♥
